Ngoko, wenza i-mess, kwaye ngoku kwakuyimfuneko ukusombulula ingxaki, ngoko wagqiba ekubeni ahlambele iqhude elikhulu lenkosi yendlu, kwaye wayenza ngokugqibeleleyo kangangokuba wade wamkhotha, ukuze aqhubele le nzwakazi. Emva kokuba eyifakile, wayenza kakhulu, wamfaka njengoko bekufanele, ihlwempu, wada wancwina, kodwa ukugweba ngendlela iqhude elinjalo linyamalala ngayo, isiphelo sinye, wayenayo le asiyiyo yokuqala.
Iintlobano zesini emtshatweni zifuna nje ukwahluka. Ukuba isibini asikwenzi kunye, ngoko ngokucacileyo siya kukwenza ngokufihlakeleyo ngamnye ngokwahlukeneyo! Ndicinga ukuba olu tshintsho lwasekhaya lwamkelekile, kuyo nayiphi na imeko ayiyinto engaqhelekanga njengokonwabisa iqela elikhulu labajingi. Mna nenkosikazi yam sake sandimemela kwenye yezi, ngokuchasene naye le kliphu lusapho lwe-sex puritanical!